If I had to name the number one challenge that couples face today it would have to be communication - hands down. It’s sad to see how problems in this area cause so much conflict and eventual divorce.
The good news is that by making some minor changes in your communication style, you can avoid so much heartache and misunderstanding, which frees you up to use your energy creating the amazing relationship you really want to have. (Sounds like much more fun;)
Here is a Huff Post article that I contributed to which addresses this very problem. Please feel free to add any suggestions of your own.